As you requested, this is your ACT Self-Advocacy
Resource Network Memo facilitating a national dialogue among
self-advocates and supporters and a clearinghouse for materials and
training that support self-advocacy.
October 10, 2007
Take Your Time; I’m Listening.
One way to show someone respect is by
listening to him or her. Any self-advocacy group is stronger when members
know how to listen to one another. But what makes a good listener?
There are many listening skills. Here are a few:
Stop talking
Be patient
Make the speaker feel comfortable
Know what is being said (and not said)
Don’t plan your argument while the other person is talking (give the
speaker your attention)
Help your self-advocacy
group value the importance of listening. Discuss and list the
payoffs of good listening. “How could our group be stronger if we
were better listeners to one another?”
Who was it that said, “To make a great dream come true, the
first requirement is a great capacity to dream; the second
is persistence”?
a. Mother Teresa
b. Rosa Parks
c. Cesar Chavez
d. Nelson Mandela
(Thanks to SARN member Trena D. Wade from San Diego People
First in El Cajon, California for this week’s trivia
question. The answer will be published in the next Memo.)
Answer to
October
3rd Trivia
Question:
The First Amendment.
Question
was: What
amendment in
the U.S. Bill
of Rights
guarantees
freedom of
religion,
speech and the
press?
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